tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post8947155958350743307..comments2023-12-25T19:35:31.976-08:00Comments on Having a Ball: What's the Lesson?@nniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14179475629697338356noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-9851003618649635902009-02-24T22:21:00.000-08:002009-02-24T22:21:00.000-08:00WOW! First, I just feel left out...pout, pout...yo...WOW! <BR/><BR/>First, I just feel left out...pout, pout...you're going to a new church? Wait, you may have mentioned this in an email...<BR/><BR/>Or maybe "somebody" needs to get back in the loop...I'm catching up.<BR/><BR/>Oh, Annie! I so understand that feeling. You know, I even considered not long ago doing an interview with "That Mama". I mean, I've never thought of us as "THAT family"...but in many ways I've been knocked off my pedestal.<BR/><BR/>At the same time, I know what it's like to be in one of those moments....YUK...Courtney's coach seemed to keep them over all the time. But you would know, those time I was a bit later and trusting that they would be running over as usual...they'd get out EARLY! Not on time. EARLY! SOOO embarrassing. YUK! Sophie, well, she just broke the mold...<BR/><BR/>Today in Walmart she told ME and COURTNEY for NO apparent reason and rather loudly, "Y'ALL BE-HAVE! JUST BE-HAVE!" All the while she waved her hand at us like she was the parent.<BR/><BR/>YIKES....I understand the feelings that can overwhelm you when you don't feel like your measuring up.<BR/><BR/>THANK GOD HIS strength is made PERFECT in our weaknesses!<BR/><BR/>If you're like me, you have LOTS of His perfect srength going on! ;)<BR/><BR/>Miss you....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-87237483848100116782009-02-19T02:29:00.000-08:002009-02-19T02:29:00.000-08:00Annie,I so feel you girl!! I have two "luke's" Th...Annie,<BR/>I so feel you girl!! I have two "luke's" They are 5 next month and 6 in June. <BR/>They have their moments, of peace and calm and clarity few and far between and I sooooo feel the judging eyes. <BR/>Finding a new church is always hard and there will always be those eyes, but the right church the nonjudging eyes will be far more prevalent and you will know it. <BR/><BR/>There are other moms who are right there with you. <BR/>I remembered soccer pictures only to forget 4 of the SCHEDULED games after getting emails that they were going to be that week....(5 y/o soccer and being sooo pregnant is what I blame) one of the games i missed was my week to take snacks...go mom<BR/>the thing i try to remember on a daily basis is that we mess up and God still loves us the same way as our kids mess up and we still love them....<BR/>big hugs coming your way!!<BR/>steffsteffj89https://www.blogger.com/profile/15196384775024322274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-86481953606533142282009-02-16T15:24:00.000-08:002009-02-16T15:24:00.000-08:00Sweet, friend. Pick another pair of sunglasses to...Sweet, friend. Pick another pair of sunglasses to wear. It’s hard to let go of unfortunate happenings in our life. Those awful moments don’t define us. Your sunglasses need to be cleaned or changed all together…because your seeing boogers, snot and left over grease from a bag of chips.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05471755724013346437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-90199081829167917582009-02-12T18:49:00.000-08:002009-02-12T18:49:00.000-08:00Annie, Annie! You are NOT a loser mom! I haven't h...Annie, Annie! You are NOT a loser mom! I haven't had a moment to get to the blogs in the last day. I see you posted this yesterday. I hope and pray that today gave you new perspective and a feeling of new beginnings! I so know how you feel, though! I'm still working on my mom post that you tagged me on...I'm so with you on these parenting issues! I even have my own Upwards photo story (I won't share the details since you pretty much already know it from experience). Oy! Let's just keep remembering we are fallible gals who, thankfully, are saved by the grace of God! Blessings, KathleenKathleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17808679812939188136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-61056736147319889802009-02-12T17:43:00.000-08:002009-02-12T17:43:00.000-08:00When it rains, it pours, huh!?!Hope tomorrow is a ...When it rains, it pours, huh!?!<BR/><BR/>Hope tomorrow is a great day!4 Lettre Wordshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16164130220334804366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-60998959797413909112009-02-11T20:57:00.000-08:002009-02-11T20:57:00.000-08:00i love you ann(i)e! i have always admired you...b...i love you ann(i)e! i have always admired you...<BR/><BR/>bless you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-45098952161371804762009-02-11T19:51:00.000-08:002009-02-11T19:51:00.000-08:00Oh BELIEVE me - we've all been there. With Michae...Oh BELIEVE me - we've all been there. With Michael I was judged all of the time by people who didn't understand his "issues". With Jacob - well... he's just Jacob.<BR/>It is hard not to worry what others are thinking, but maybe you should think that this other mom has bigger issues. <BR/>If she can't be nice to a visitor at a church event then when can she?<BR/>I agree with Shannon - I'm so thankful that Doc's job keeps him home every night. Being a single parent sometimes would be hard work.ThatsBaloneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07518203980804301410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-80265436004868980902009-02-11T19:44:00.000-08:002009-02-11T19:44:00.000-08:00I was JUST thinking earlier today that one quality...I was JUST thinking earlier today that one quality that I absolutely love for people to have is GRACE. Don't ya just love when you have friends or family that love you no matter what? They just get you...they know your heart. Because I love this trait so much in others, I certainly need to strive to have this for them in return.<BR/>You can count on me to have GRACE on you my sweet friend...<BR/>XOXO,<BR/>Katiemomof4krhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00454466018933020763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-89694034894877367682009-02-11T19:33:00.000-08:002009-02-11T19:33:00.000-08:00I think moms who have traveling husbands have a sp...I think moms who have traveling husbands have a special reward waiting for them in Heaven, don't you? God knows what we go through. YOU are a wonderful Mom, Annie.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13039525197728859500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-21491687001842647452009-02-11T19:11:00.000-08:002009-02-11T19:11:00.000-08:00Surely every mom feels like a loser mom at some po...Surely every mom feels like a loser mom at some point or another. I know I've been there, after the umpteenth time of Henry biting or scratching or maiming somebody in some way, despite the fact that we are way more disciplinarians than most parents. You just have to remember that even those other moms, the ones who have been/will be mean to you throughout your life at times, they've all surely been on the same end as you of being judged as well, even if they never let you know that. I'm the queen of caring about what people think although I wish I wasn't, so your own advice of only looking at what the Lord thinks of you, that sounds the best to me.Valeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13552751640928061480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-12711295134837435542009-02-11T14:44:00.000-08:002009-02-11T14:44:00.000-08:00Hi Annie, you know, there are going to be plenty o...Hi Annie, you know, there are going to be plenty of days where things just dont seem to go right, but you arent a loser mom! We all have those days where we feel like we have no idea what we're doing, but we know its wrong. If other people dont understand that sometimes kids are wild and sometimes not on their best behavior, then they must not have kids, or else they must have been in another world when theirs acted that way. Just keep your head up and remember to pray before doing activities like that with your kids, that things will go smooth. It sure makes a difference!!!! (((hugs)))Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11211577521022201421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-57914512251611720092009-02-11T14:26:00.000-08:002009-02-11T14:26:00.000-08:00I totally know how you feel and how hard it is jug...I totally know how you feel and how hard it is juggling kids and everything. I have felt several times this week like "melting down". <BR/>You really shouldn't feel bad.<BR/>You are a wonderful mom and anyone who has a child should know how 5 year old boys can be. I speak from experience.<BR/>I wrote earlier this week about what a horrible day I was having and sometimes it just feels good to get it out. <BR/>I hope tomorrow is better for you. :)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11569388287927664885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-75740529710743575492009-02-11T11:46:00.000-08:002009-02-11T11:46:00.000-08:00Oh, Annie, I can really relate to this right now. ...Oh, Annie, I can really relate to this right now. <BR/><BR/>I know that feeling well. It stinks. <BR/><BR/>I feel just horrible you cried all the way home. <BR/><BR/>If you've not read the book called Wild at Heart you MUST read it. It will help you understand your Luke a little better. :) <BR/><BR/>I think you are an awesome mom and woman. Don't be too hard on yourself.Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16005700388084245312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-83128548169702968462009-02-11T11:38:00.000-08:002009-02-11T11:38:00.000-08:00Boy I know about the whole feeling judged thing......Boy I know about the whole feeling judged thing...Thats a hard one to allow ourselves to let go of...<BR/><BR/>this is what i tell myself...<BR/>I say 'self you are falable'<BR/>then i say 'self go eat some chocolate covered strawberries'<BR/><BR/>well it works for me...<BR/><BR/>You are a GREAT mom...I can't count how many times i forgotten someone/something...my point we are all human...<BR/>x♥x♥Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13755834803574964576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32802199.post-61554328834809026782009-02-11T11:00:00.000-08:002009-02-11T11:00:00.000-08:00When I am feeling judged, I try to remember that C...When I am feeling judged, I try to remember that Christ was judged much more unfairly than I ever will be. Can you imagine how that must have felt. He did NOTHING and people spat on him, ripped his clothes and hung him on a cross.<BR/><BR/>You are a GREAT mom and we all go through times like this. Deep breaths, and remember, this too shall pass!<BR/><BR/>Love you!Amanda Herroldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06947224166840325013noreply@blogger.com